From Pain to Power: A Sanctuary of Inspiration and Healing
Welcome to "From Pain to Power," a sanctuary of inspiration, education, and healing. This is a space where you can embark on a journey of self-discovery, empowerment, and transformation. My mission is to guide you in finding your own strength and becoming the best version of yourself.
Together, let's explore the power of healing and the potential within each of us to change our stories.a space where inspiration meets education, awareness, and healing. This collection of blogs serves as a virtual diary, chronicling my journey through the complexities of life with chronic illness, mental health challenges, and personal growth. It is a haven where you can find solace, support, and motivation to thrive despite life's adversities
Navigating Uncomfortable Conversations
I'm addressing topics that may make some people uncomfortable, but I stand by my words. These discussions about unhealed trauma are essential, no matter how you feel about them—it matters. As a young girl, trauma visited my life, and through years of living in dysfunction, I witnessed my wounds affecting every part of my existence.
What A Trauma Bond Relationship Looks Like
Trauma bond relatonship looks like a complex and often bewildering connection that can trap people in a cycle of emotional turmoil. It may appear as a relationship filled with intense highs and lows, where moments of affection and kindness are interspersed with episodes of abuse and manipulation.
Thriving Not Surving
On days when my body is crying out for help and all I want to do is stay in bed, especially when the pain reaches a level of 10, it's during these times that I must prioritize self-care the most.
The Things You Notice When You Start Healing
When you start on a healing journey, the world can feel incredibly confusing and isolating, prompting deep reflection. One important lesson I'm learning is that when you are the sole person in your family choosing to heal, it can be disheartening to observe from the outside that others are unwilling to change.
Breaking Free From Survial Mode
Survival mode can be very challenging to move beyond; it requires time and significant effort for personal growth. You will experience both good days and bad days, but there is a way forward.It's important to remember that even on the toughest days, you have the strength within you to persevere.
Grounding and Reflecting
Taking time for grounding allows me to find calm and reflect. As I progress through my Reiki training and embrace the healing energy, I realize the importance of caring for myself a little more.
Breaking Free From Trauma Bonds
How I Began My Journey of Healing from Years of Trauma Bonding and the Practices and Actions I Implemented in My Life included seeking therapy, which became a cornerstone in addressing the deep-rooted trauma that had shaped my life.
Trauma Bonding My Story
Trauma bonding is another term that completely caught me off guard. I always believed I was a well-adjusted person, so discovering this aspect of myself was shocking. During my therapy sessions and various courses aimed at helping me break old habits and move away from my former life,
Thriving, Not Just Surviving
one of the medical conditions I deal with is and recently had a flare-up of. Living with Meniere's disease and vestibular migraines can be incredibly challenging for those affected by these conditions. Meniere's disease is a disorder of the inner ear that leads to vertigo, hearing loss, tinnitus, and a feeling of fullness in the ear.
Happy Sunday,
If I could offer you one essential piece of advice, it would be this: the most crucial action you can take is to dedicate time for reflection—whether weekly, daily, or monthly. This practice has been a cornerstone of my healing journey and personal discovery. For a long time, I felt silenced, lacked direction, and avoided my own emotions, thoughts, and the world around me.
Thriving not Surviving
Several years ago, my health took a significant downturn. I was constantly fatigued, and despite my efforts to eat healthily and stay active, I couldn't seem to lose any weight. I felt like a sloth, wanting to sleep all the time. I realized this was more than just my endometriosis. After some blood tests, I was called in to see the doctor, who informed me that I had an inactive thyroid.
Perseverance in the Face of Adversity
Life has knocked me down countless times. However, I've always been a fighter. I've had to deal with cruel individuals, rebuild my life more times than I can remember, and lost everything.
Thriving Not Surviving
My endometriosis journey began in my teenage years, when I mistakenly believed I was just experiencing bad periods. It wasn't until 2003, after the birth of my second child, that the symptoms escalated and I realized something was wrong. With a family history of gynecological issues, many of us struggled to conceive naturally.
The Struggle to Find Time in Life's Demands
As life's responsibilities pile up, it becomes increasingly difficult to hit the brakes and take a breather. We all have commitments, struggles, and worries that weigh heavily on our minds, but the one thing we can't seem to find is time
Trauma can Shift Your Perception
Trauma can shift your perception of the world changes to survial mode, where every situation seems heightened and urgent. The familiar world becomes a landscape filled with potential threats, and your mind is constantly on alert, seeking to protect you from harm. This shift in perception can be exhausting, as you're always bracing for impact, even when there's no immediate danger.
My own Personal Journey
My personal healing journey has taken me down many different paths. Some have been messy, others quite lonely; some have allowed me to realize a lot about myself, while others have opened doors to incredible opportunities. I’ve encountered new people and places, and some paths have delivered hard truths that were difficult to accept
Living in Survival Mode
Living in survival mode is more than just tough times; it's a state of constant alertness and stress that can affect every aspect of your life. It often arises from prolonged exposure to stressors, such as financial difficulties, health challenges, or toxic relationships
Finding Joy in Life's Simple Pleasures
Our lives are increasingly hectic, and we can become consumed with the pursuit of success, money, and material goods. However, it's essential to remember that the most valuable things in life are often the simplest and free.