Unraveling the Puzzling World of Modern Dating
Honestly, I'm puzzled by the amount of disrespect and negative behaviors, along with the absence of values. One important lesson I've learned is to never water yourself down for others. It's crucial to love yourself and enjoy your own company.
It seems like communication is missing. If you're not interested in someone, it's important to respectfully communicate that. Using words is crucial – there is nothing more frustrating than having to guess where you stand.. How many women are boldly asking tough questions while engaging in conversations? to many have serious convictions, addictions, have made some serious poor life choices and they are seriously good with words and know how to sucker you in.
I've personally experienced a time when I didn't value myself, becoming entangled in a web of words and misconceptions. It was through this journey that I discovered the reality of domestic violence and how to navigate through it. I've grown significantly since then, still on a healing journey and still growing. My crucial advice is to prioritize self-love and self-care, avoid relying on others for happiness, ask the tough questions, maintain your boundaries, and make sure you're not giving away too much of yourself. Let them pursue you, avoid being overly needy, and establish clear boundaries about what is acceptable. Change is necessary, and it all begins with you.
In reality, many people are unhealed or are still healing and have acquired negative behaviors along the way. The treatment of women by men is a puzzling issue. When and why did this shift occur? Do any of us hold the answers, or has this always existed but only come to the forefront due to the influence of technology in our world?
The current dating scene seems to focus more on casual encounters, with little effort put into getting to know each other. Terms like ghosting and breadcrumbing have become popular names for shitty behaviors, in reality, it reflects a lack of respect and consideration. It's important to stand up for yourself and set boundaries. Silence can be frustrating, especially after establishing a good connection and having meaningful conversations. It's disappointing when someone suddenly disappears after investing time and effort. Having a simple conversation to express disinterest is not difficult and shows respect for the other person.
I'm planning to write a blog post and create a book on this topic, and I'd love to hear your thoughts. Share your pet peeves related to this topic, or your personal experiences, or maybe you're just as puzzled as I am about the state of the dating world.
