Living with Endo AKA Freddy

I have had endometriosis since 2003 and honestly im super grateful that i had two beautiful girls back then followed by son i no so many people that struggle to have a child let alone children.Endo is my Freddy and he is my nightmare..... Every month is different for me some days are just worst then others, i have days where my bed is my best friend just like Mr electric blanket or a wheat pack and half a pile of pain medications get me through get me through the day. Freddy is the nickname I use for my endometriosis because, honestly, it's the best way to express the pain on certain days. The unfortunate truth is that this is not just a monthly problem. It's not only during your period; it's the anticipation and aftermath as well. Therefore, some months can be relentless, and relief is hard to come by.

What is Endometriosis

Endometriosis is a condition where tissue similar to the lining inside the uterus, known as the endometrium, grows outside the uterus. This misplaced tissue can be found on the ovaries, fallopian tubes, outer surface of the uterus, and other organs in the pelvis. During a woman's menstrual cycle, this tissue can thicken, break down, and bleed just like the normal endometrial tissue inside the uterus. However, because this tissue has no way to exit the body, it can lead to inflammation, pain, scar tissue formation, and adhesions.

No one mentions how it impacts various aspects of your life and significantly influences it. The persistent nausea, bloating, weight concerns, and unpredictable days all play a role.

Symptoms of endometriosis can vary from person to person but often include pelvic pain, heavy periods, pain during intercourse, infertility, and fatigue. Diagnosis usually involves a combination of symptoms assessment, pelvic exams, imaging tests, and sometimes laparoscopic surgery for a definitive diagnosis. Treatment options for endometriosis may include pain medication, hormonal therapy, surgery to remove the abnormal tissue, or in severe cases, a hysterectomy. It's essential for individuals experiencing symptoms of endometriosis to seek medical advice and support to manage the condition effectively.

No one tells you that Endometriosis is a challenging condition that not only affects a person physically but can also has impact on our emotional well-being and relationships. the feeling of been lonely as they navigate the ups and downs of managing their symptoms. Chronic pain, fatigue, and other symptoms can make it difficult to engage in social activities or maintain relationships, leading to feelings of isolation.

My relationship went to custard pretty quick, relationships with partners, family members, and friends can become strained due to the unpredictable nature of endometriosis. Loved ones may struggle to understand the extent of the pain and discomfort experienced by someone with endometriosis, which can create tension and misunderstandings. Communication is key in these situations, and open and honest conversations about the challenges of living with endometriosis can help bridge the gap and strengthen relationships.

March is Endometrosis Month